There seems to be this misconception that Christians and non-Christians who believe that sex should be saved for marriage think that sex is something bad, disgusting, ugly, etc. I am here to tell you, as a Christian virgin waiting until marriage to have sex that I think
SEX IS BEAUTIFUL. I think it is so beautiful, and so special, that I want to make sure that I am in a committed marriage to do it, and that I will only do it with one person for the rest of my life. I would like to respond to a comment I got on one of my
other posts:
"I personally feel that waiting until your wedding night for your first time with someone is a bad decision. Usually the first time with a new partner is not really too good. It's a bit awkward, as you're both trying to find each other's "rythm" if you will. But, the very first time for a woman is almost always messy and painful. Good luck with that on your "magical" night."
My response: Well, myself and my husband will have a long happy life together to discover our
rhythm, make it
good, and have
our magic.
I am not a mindless Christian zombie. I never attempt to convince anyone that my way of thinking is the right way of thinking. I respect each and every one's opinions whether it is the same or opposite of mine. I never put down or mock anyone's way of thinking. Dweebs
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That's respectable...
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This is recable!! I think people have this horrible misconception that we're prudes or something as Christians... when that couldn't be farther from the truth. At least, for some of us. We just know what is special and worth waiting for!!
Who you callin a dweeb????
I'm a virgin and I think sex is beautiful too. I am waiting on engagement though. I'm more spiritual than christian anymore.
I could care less about the "magic" of my wedding night. There's so much pressure! I'd rather take the time getting to know my husband and his body.
By the way, to whomever wrote that, there are things that can be done to make the first time less painful, etc. I don't see why I would want to put myself in such a vulnerable position with anyone that I trust less than enough to commit to the rest of my life to sharing with them. :*rolls eyes*
@Papillon_Mom - I agree! No prude here!...(hey, you forgot to rec
lol
. I like the new pic *kissy face*
@CiaoBella810 - anyone BUT you
@queen_of_hearts102304 - engagement is close enough I suppose
@EilisAngelos - Exactly! If they feel it is "that bad" doesn't it make sense to have that with someone you will be with for life?
Everyone has to make up his or her own mind and come to the decision that they'll live with the rest of their lives.
Does that make one decision better or worse than another? No. But we should respect each other's decisions as we'd want our own respected. Blasting someone for waiting is just rude.
@CiaoBella810 - oh, and thanks for the rec!
@SladeTheGreyFox - I agree. I try very hard not to step on the toes of those who don't believe the same things I do, but some people like picking trouble I suppose.
@AlterEgo909 - Well, crap!! I didn't... LOL!!!
@AlterEgo909 - LMAO!! Hmm...well the only thing I have to say is that I have high hormone levels...so I'm just giving myself the benefit of the doubt without being easy.
I'm a virgin too...eh! I wish I could say that. Well, technically, I've been married...but I guess I'm trying to say I wish I had had the will power you have! It's an awesome and respectable thing! And for a girl like you, who 6 year olds find to be irrisistably hott!...I know it must be tough!
@queen_of_hearts102304 - BEWARE! Engagments aren't marriage...I used to be engaged and we never married...it does happen! I think you're wonderful either way
@Papillon_Mom - LMApplesO
@jediwa72 - LMApplesO, indeed, with the first graders I have knocking down my door, it gets hard sometimes lol.
@jediwa72 -
LOL!! I am super wonderful. LOL! JK JK! Anyways...I mean I just want a commitment. If he left me after that then it just means he's an idiot.
totally agree! I'm waiting till marriage too, great post!
@IXOYE_AD - Thanks!......I love your profile picture! Did you hear about the man not too long ago who claimed he was that sailor? They were trying to use hand recognition software to determine if he was telling the truth!
@AlterEgo909 - Yeah, I've read up on the story, it's great. I love WWII, and so that's why I have that profile pic! Thanks!
Good for you! I was a virgin on my wedding night and so was my husband. I didn't think it was awkward at all! It was beautiful, wonderful, and perfect. It just feels right and there isn't really any awkwardness. As for the "pain", it was a little uncomfortable at first, but I still wouldn't trade it for anything. My wedding day and night was the best day of my life and that was just the most perfect ending to a perfect day. Anyways, just wanted to share another perspective.
Well done! I commend you for holding to your beliefs.
@Sallymaesue - Thanks for sharing your perspective, I appreciate it!
@casmarie - Thank you.
@AlterEgo909 - You're welcome. Trust me, God will bless you on your wedding night and it won't be how that person described it at all.
@AlterEgo909 - Also love and sex will show your true passion for sex
Sex is beauitful to watch or to do with a guy or someone esle